Third Circle Theory - Purpose Through Observation by Ghadimi Pejman

Author:Ghadimi, Pejman [Ghadimi, Pejman]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi
Published: 2013-01-14T00:00:00+00:00

Being Self-Motivated

When you accept that you have everything at stake and cannot give up, the natural realization occurs that no one is going to help you get there, especially since most people live in the First or Second Circle and are egocentric in nature. They won’t help you if it doesn’t benefit them. That means you alone are in charge.

You find your ticker as a result, which happens to be your vision of your own success. Then you allow nothing — and I mean nothing — to sway you from believing it to be true. This ticker becomes your daily reminder of why you must succeed. It also helps you to remain motivated along the way. In most cases, a person’s motivation is highly egocentric here, but that’s ok as it is heading towards the Third Circle. Materialistic things will motivate most until they can look past them. I myself bought a new exotic car each year to remind myself of why I worked so hard. I sometimes put myself financially at stake doing so as I pushed harder to retain the luxury of keeping the car. Even though many might argue it to be a terrible financial decision to buy a new car every year, I believed that purchase to be an investment in myself, not the automobile. This behavior fueled me to keep going and I can tell you it certainly helped me, despite being difficult. The cars were a symbol to me, a sign of appreciation for where I was going.

You, too, must find not only your ticker, but must also what will keep you afloat when you slip down. That trigger cannot be for someone else. Do not make the mistake of working for your children, but rather find what satisfies your soul. While working for the benefit of others is very noble and a big part of the Third Circle, those who undertake this direction early on will burn out and often blame others for their failure. For example, if you work to please your wife only to find out that she is unappreciative, the negative response destroys your self-motivation. The motivating factor needs to be constant and certainly cannot be emotional in nature or it will be unsustainable. If the underlying influence is out of your control, then it goes against what you learned so far.

Once you’ve mastered these habits, you become much more in control of your destination and significantly strengthen your confidence level. You are now entering a whole new segment of your life where control of just about everything you do is in your hands. The phrase, “you can do anything you put your mind to”, becomes a reality rather than a myth — that is, until you are faced with your greatest challenge: overcoming your emotions.

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